THAT would be the alliteration to sum up the week that was, Thursday May 5th – Thursday May 12th.
Sometimes I get annoyed at myself that this blog gets neglected. Then I realize it’s because sometimes I have to LIVE the life, before I can write about it.
It was a rocky month leading into the much anticipated school play. Her health was questionable. She spent most of Spring Break recovering from some random illness. Attendance at swim has been spotty, a true sign she’s not herself, but after attending the Swim Team’s annual banquet the night before, she was ready for “The Wizard of Oz Jr.”
Meghan knew she liked the stage. She didn’t know until she met her drama teacher in 6th Grade, that she also enjoyed acting, and singing. Her father and I were stunned when we heard her for the first time. Thank goodness for teachers… she may never have found this outlet. And it has been such a wonderful thing. She has met some really great kids, and has had fun along the way.
She was so excited to play Aunt Em in this year’s play, and even more excited because “Dorothy” was being played by a trusted ally, a rare commodity on Meghan’s life. It made the role easier to get into, and to play with her whole self.
Four shows in two days tired them out, but the standing ovation to almost a packed house at the Intermediate School Friday night showed all their efforts to be worth it.
Meg slept almost all day Saturday. This is how it works. We play trade. For those of you familiar with the “Spoon Theory,” (http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/) we often borrow off the weekend “Spoons.” We don’t get out much, but it keeps things working. She woke some time around 2:30 PM Saturday when I roused her.
Sunday was Mother’s Day. We visited some special mothers, caught up on some homework, and finished a project. Monday was school as usual, followed by her second year induction into the National Honor Society, (Arista) followed by preparing for Tuesday’s trip to Albany.
Some time over the spring break I was contacted by the office of Senator Andrew Lanza. Apparently, every year, every Senator gets to select a “Woman of Distinction” to be honored at a special ceremony in the Capitol in Albany. We were amazed, and humbled that he had chosen Meghan. The youngest to ever receive the honor, he was attracted to her spunk, her determination, and her “can do” attitude. He liked that she didn’t wait to grow up to start doing something. He liked that she was 12 and making a difference now.
So on Tuesday morning, Felix, and Meghan and I set out on the 2.5 hour journey to Albany. The trip was smooth, until we got a tiny bit lost in Albany, but we were easily saved and set right by the Senator’s staff. Nancy had us in the right direction in no time.
We got to the Senator’s Office and enjoyed a wonderful lunch. We got to sit on the Senate floor, and watch some of the Senate in session. We walked around the building, and enjoyed the afternoon.
The ceremony began at 5:30 and probably my only regret was that I couldn’t record every moment to replay in my brain forever. It was one of our proudest hours as parents.
(If you click the blue link above, Meghan is on Page 44.)
The reception that followed allowed for some conversation with Senator Lanza. An incredibly intelligent, down-to-earth, “regular,” guy kept Meghan chatting for well over an hour. We took pictures, laughed, and she even secured an internship for the summer after her freshman year in High School.
The drive home got us in the door around 11. We were asleep by 12 and ready for school and work the next morning. Tired, but determined, she even made swim practice.
Thursday I dropped her at school regular time.
By 8:20 my phone was ringing with the school nurse’s number. She was not well, and they were frightened. They wanted to call an ambulance. Knowing where that would lead I begged her to wait. I went into automatic, and with an incredibly understanding group of colleagues and administrators, I was at her school in under 10 minutes.
When I arrived the color had begun to return to her face. She was weak, but able to focus on me. I told them I could take care of it, and I signed her out while they wheeled her to my car. Once in the house I waited a good 3 hours. No sign of a problem.
Rice noodles and flat ginger ale did her in inside of 20 minutes. I can honestly say in her 12 years I’ve never ever seen her that sick. She was in so much pain, periods of time were missing from her memory. I was terrified. But, foolishly or not, I held out. She was hydrated. I wasn’t taking her to the hospital here. Not again. And I knew we were meeting a new GI in the city Friday. If she could just hold on…
And she did. Because for almost 24 hours I just didn’t feed her. She slept most of it anyway. But, I’ve decided hydration wins, and food can wait. It worked. By Friday night she was almost back to herself.
Yesterday she swam in a CYO meet.
My head spins. And the tales I tell here are simply HER end of the week. Add in the routine, and the mundane, and… it’s been a long week.
I have work to do. Lots of it. It’s in a big pile right here next to me. There were plenty of things that “should” have been done that weren’t. And you know what? We’re OK. The house is in one piece. The Board of Health isn’t coming to inspect my extra dog hairs on the floor. The laundry isn’t folded. But it will get done.
Tonight I put me first for an hour, and putting me first is getting the week out of my system right here. Just me, my thoughts, and a glass of wine.
Cowden’s Syndrome – you’ve got some good fight in you, but we are stronger. We will take you every time.
We are #BEATINGCOWDENS!